Thank you Lynn and Hunny,

Funny enough I did as you said Lynn I told hubby he was upsetting me by not actually giving me what I wanted which was a hug etc.

He tried his best and we are now fine

Hunny I pray what you have said is true and a taste of freedom has done it for him, yes there have been a few big things lately however I am strong I just took a shock but am now back up and running .