I have been with my ex for almost 5 years now-after 25 years apart.Months ago I found that while on a business he took pics of a gogo girl and sent them to a friend-also he got went to the Hooters Casino while he was there-we got coupons in the mail-the same day I found out he has been to Hooters several times-that I didn't know about.The worst came months later when I found videos-seconds long on his phone-girls in shorts were on both-one walking a dog and the other he focused on swomeones rear and you can hear him say "Id like to f-- that".I was/am devastated by all this and his answer is it was stupid sh-- and we need to move on-he wants to be with me.He's 51-Im 49.I cried and hurt bad enough from just the pics and to have him do worse(videos) makes me doubt him all the more.Am I crazy to think that there is likely worse thats gone on and I am an idiot for hanging in or could it all just be stupid sh-- as he says.Please give me some imput!!!