Just wanted to offer some support here. This is the best way to put the soap in first because it stops clagging and hardening of soap that gets caught in the clothing or material.

As for all the other things, I can only suggest that his mother or father did nothing other than do the same to him and brought him up to be a complainer.

Don't let him do this to you saluki, you are a woman in your own right and do not need someone to tell you what to do and how to do it.