Yeah, lexaproman, have got to agree on this one. I've been in a major league fog recently, and with one (unrelated to below) thing I've been beating myself over about for quite some time? I've decided to just let that go for awhile. There's just waaaay too much else on the plate right now. Can't do it all at once.
(My main problem though? Exactly the same as before. Damn. Nothing for it but to accept that I have no control over the situation atm, and to see where it goes. Easier said than done.)