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Originally Posted by pachyderm
Butting in here; you can tell me to go...
This kind of suggestion has always made me even more furious, and increased my feelings of impotence. I mean, those are not the things I really want to break. I really want to break some things that are not allowed even to be mentioned. The real things... or people...
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Look, I'm just sharing what has helped me. I was never allowed to be angry becaue my anger would be swallowed up by my mother's anger. I found it refreshing to have someone tell me I had a right to yell and get angry, that I didn't have to be quiet anymore. Fine if this is not helpful. So just let it go then.