ah, jen i understand you very well.
When it was just GOING to happen - did you know it was going to happen? NO!
No human being would LOVE such suffering caused to then!
When it happened - is a person going into shock? YES!
So you see - yeah they will never get it - and i assume that NO ONE who was never assaulted is ever going to get it. So we better let ourselves realize this and talk about it ~only~ to people who can get it!

Its been getting on my nerves just as much!