i got a lipton iced tea out of the fridge instead of a soda. and convinced my boyfriends mom to ask her doctor for a referral for a therapist. i think it will be very beneficial for her. she confided in me that she has had several feelings of suicide. i was not very surprised though, considering how she lives her life. i can sadly see myself in her. but i guess i did something right in order for her to confide such deep secrets to me.