I've been drawn to this conversation for days, wanting to comment but unsure that my words will be taken out of context.
This thread has many people concerned for this victim (I'm grateful for this community and your support of each individual and their continued healing and well being). . . though reading through it's entirety a couple of times, I'm not convinced that there might not be other underlying issues. What if . . . she does not have BP as he is attempting to have you all believe. Has there been a substantiated diagnosis or could it be that it his, and only his, perspective. That possibly the viewpoint is exaggerated to suck in the audience and gain your support - many have replied with genuine concern. Just questioning? What if, she's been a victim herself of a person who wants dominance and just had a mental breakdown? What support would you then offer her?
Please, pray that she receives the help and guidance she needs and he finds continued support and healing.
-"Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored." - Aldous Huxley