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Originally Posted by Meow_is_Truth
I know that there are many other 20-year-old virgins out there, especially among Asian girls like me. But every time I hear about others' sexual exploits, I get envious. I'm also constantly thinking about sex. I'm lesbian and I'm a bit shy around girls. (I'm not socially awkward. But you know what power a pretty girl holds. lol) Perhaps that's one of the reasons I'm still a virgin. I know for a fact though that I'm not ugly, quite the contrary, so this is not a self-esteem issue. Still, I'm really bothered about being a virgin. I'm liberal in my world view and laugh at the idea of saving myself for someone. But I don't like the idea of having sex with a random person you meet in a bar, either. Too much STDs going around these days. So, what should I do while I'm still not getting any sex? Is there anything that can make the wait less upsetting? (Please don't tell me to masturbate, though. I already do that a lot. XD)
Thanks.
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You're still young, so don't feel pressured. Look for that special person, (in your case a woman) who you could love and would love you back, and when it happens, it will be a wonderful thing. Doing it just to maintain "status quo" isn't going to make you feel any better. Allow yourself the freedom of choice and eventually the right moment will come along and it will have been worth the wait!