First off I comend you for sticking thru something so horrific. Secondly,get your son out of there. he does not need to see his father be aggressive towards you or speak to you in such a disrespectful manner. Is there no one that is willing to help you out? I am sure that you could go to an abused women shelter. that would be better then having you son in the middle of this turmoil. I am sorry for situation. I just get very upset when children are in the middle of something that they know nothing about. Take care