Good evening,

I have been married for 3 years now. My husband loves me of that I have no doubt and I love him. We have been seeing a therapist together for about 6 months. He always seems to be interactive and willing to try things when we are in the office. He takes suggestions and we have bought some books that were suggested. The issue comes to getting home with the information. He always shared his inner most secrets before we got married. Now he doesn't want to talk at all. Well that isn't entirely true. He will talk about everything under the sun except our marriage and why neither of us is happy.

We have been hit pretty hard by the economic slow down and I have tried everything I know to help keep him optimistic during the times he has been unemployed. The problem is that as each day goes by I start feeling more and more like he is just using me. I just keep giving and doing everything I can to make things better for the both of us. He continues to sleep and slouch around the house. How are things suppose to get better if only one of us is really trying?

Any input would be great
Thanks