It's so interesting to me zoo that your reactions to your T's phone calls and texts are the same mine have been. Gives me hope that I'm relatively normal after all. I actually avoided my T's call last week, I was afraid to pick up the phone when she called as well- I also missed appointments and a group meeting. That is sooooo out of character for me.

Do you even care if there are boundaries anymore? Personally, since this has happened, I really could care less about them anymore. I was uber respective of them before. I always have gone out of my way to try to make everyone around me feel comfortable etc.- but I don't care about that anymore.

I think, at 52, I might finally be going through my rebellious teen years! Were you ever a rebellious teen zoo???