Even after 30 years of marriage, I feel that if I am wanted to change for the worse, & I am not liked for the way I am......then I don't need them. It takes a long time to make you the person that works for you & unless the problem is something that socially doesn't work or is a harm to a relationship, then if they don't like what they get, you are too good for them & they don't deserve you. It doesn't hurt to analyze the suggested changes....you never know if there is something valuable in what the suggested change is, but if there isn't, blow them off & go on to find someone you are more compatable with. You should never change for the worse no how no way. Only keep changes that are valuable & throw away the things that aren't....you know yourself the best of everyone & you should be who you want to be.

Debbie