"Jerry attacked me in every way possible in his "effort to not minimize anything." I was in pieces on the way home."

You went to a therapist to help your husband and that is what he does to you! I am so terribly sorry. Why people are so hurtful I will never understand. ((((((((Tomi)))))))))

For your son and his wife and your grandkid, all I can do is shake my head and give you a big kind hug

((((((((((Tomi, for your mother's heart))))))))))))))

I love you!