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Originally Posted by nannypat
I would be feeling the same way even though I know rationally my T would be back.It takes me some time to calm down the emotional part of it and then i have to talk my self through each day. I was abandoned by a T though, he lost his license so I am overly sensitive to it. Has some one abandoned you before? Can you arrange any kind of contact like e-mail or phone?
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I can't remember anyone abandoning me before, this just feels like she doesn't even care that I'm going through a lot emotionally right now and need support. She doesn't do any outside contact like email, but occasionally she'll let me call her at her office, but she's going to be gone, so that's not going to be possible.
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Originally Posted by kaliope
Your T didnt arrange for someone else to see patients while gone? That is really a long time to go without seeing someone when you are used to going once a week. If it helps, you can private message me for someone to talk to. Im not a therapist but I am a social worker so I can listen for you. The important thing to tell yourself is that your T is coming back and that you can make it through this time. You have lots of support here at PC.  |
No she didn't even suggest anyone else that I could see while she's away, I felt like she didn't even care. At the end of the session she said that time was up and she needed to let me go, and then it was like "by the way I'm going to be gone for the next 3 weeks". I know she could tell how upset I was but I doubt she really cared.
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Originally Posted by treehouse
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No no, don't worry, what you wrote was fine. I'm just in a bad state of mind right now and I know I'm not thinking clearly and it's hard to not see things as black/white. If she's gone, then I feel like she doesn't care anymore and is abandoning me.
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Originally Posted by jbmomg
Dani, just keep posting and posting and posting and pc will support you whilst t is gone...
sending safe hugs
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I'll try to post more here to get support, but right now I'm in a really bad place and I'm just trying to keep myself safe.