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Originally Posted by wheeler
I used to call my ex-T's vm alot, just listening to it gave me some comfort, although honestly, it was never enough. My current T and I text alot, and that has been extremely helpful, even if it still feels a little odd to me.
So I say call her vm as much as you need to. And the attachment stuff is hard, and it takes a long, long time to work through. Like you, I tried fighting it, denying it, resisting it, but with my current T I'm starting to accept it, and it's making all the difference.
Good luck
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Thanks! I called her vm yesterday and confirmed that it did say she wld be back the 20th, which makes me feel a lot better. I am anxiously waiting for when she calls back to confirm our appt. for when I get back, but at least I know she is still on vacay (altho I could have sworn she told me shed be back on Wens, oh well). And yeah the attachment stuff is super hard, I hate it!