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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
This is why I don't tell you this stuff because you are sick of hearing it and apparently it is sickening. I don't choose to feel this way on purpose. If Icould I wouldn't. I don't think Oh I should play the victim sh-- card. The voices don't make it easy for me. It fu--ing sucks. But unless you have heard voices before I don't think you can really get how bad it is. It's frustrating when I do things that are supposed to help and they don't. I don't understand how feeling empty and hearing voices is victim sh-- but it probably doesn't matter anyway right? I guess there's just something I don't understand. You are able to prescribe me something to make the voices go away like you did before and it worked well but now you choose not to. I don't get it.
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This was a really good response Cats! Great standing up for yourself!!!!!
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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
I need the voices to go away, I need to stop coming up with new ways to SI. I need a supportive text from my T, I need to feel like I have something that I can look forward to in life, I need to feel validated, I need to not hate myself, I need to stop the fu--ing victim sh--. Should I go on??
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This ^ is really good too. It is good to know what we need. Now how did her response to you address these needs?
IMO, she didn't validate you and I think what she said would make you want to hate yourself.
IMO good therapy is the therapist coming to where the client is at no matter where that is and from there the therapist needs to help the client move forward
from where they are at. IMO, what she is doing is standing far away from you and yelling at you to come over. Well, if you knew how to move forward in your life, why the heck would you need her?