I think you are doing good to be considering all this! Maybe use index cards ( or if you are totally computer, a listing) with all the goals you can think of right now, and add to them as you think of more. Also, when you accomplish a goal, write the date you did that, on the card.

Small goals, big ones... it's good to reevaluate your life and it's good to see what things you accomplish... sometimes we forget!

I think finding a T that works with you is a huge, wonderful, goal!