Sorry KareBear, I know I have been quiet...I'm dreading T going away. I got an email from my old psychologist this morning. He thanked me for getting in touch with him through email. He said the reason that he didn't return my calls is because he is in Europe right now until July 25th. He said that he would be more than happy to see me then if I like and in the meantime he said "Keep threading water Cats,......swim even"