Day,

I can understand why you might feel slighted. However, it's always been my opinion that actions speak a lot louder than words. How does he show he loves you? Does he constantly do nice things for you? Does he take your thoughts and opinions into consideration? Is he constantly respectful? If you can answer 'yes' to these questions, then I'd say you have zip to worry about. Realize though that you may spend your whole life saying the 'I love you's' for both of you. Can you live with that in light of the fact that he is not used to sharing these sort of emotions?

some of it's magic
some of it's tragic
but i had a good life all the way......
~jimmy buffett