Many of us think our Ts are wonderful people, and I wish everyone would think that of their T. But we of course see them usually only in the therapeutic setting where they are on their best behavior and see only the best parts of their personality. Would you like to have an outsider, someone who knows your T personally, validate their personality?

I found something several months ago online about my T. It's the only secret I have from her, not because she'd be angry, but because it validates to me, that she's as wonderful as I believe she is. The person who also said she is wonderful, is a relative, and the way it was worded validated my T's personality for me. I didn't need it to know, but it made me feel even better about her. A relative's view is also skewed, but not as much as a client's. I'm glad this person feels the way I do about my T!

I know this post is a little strange, but I wondered if anyone had any feelings about it.