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Originally Posted by Ryask
There isn't really anything nice about me to be completely honest....i even asked my husband what he loved about me he said "How you USED to be nice". I'm ok with that, i'm not fishing for compliments , i dont even want them. I am just being honest. All i can do in reality is get try to get stable so i can be nice again.
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Help me out here, the rest of you .... But I just got a whiff of some brainwashing going on here. "How you USED to be nice". .?? She asks him what he had loved about her & he doesn't say, "the way you laughed at my awful jokes." Or, "how you lose to me at golf." or any of a million other little, specific things. No, he whips out "How you USED to be nice". Pow.
And, Ryask, you don't
want compliments? Why the heck not? Has he convinced you that you are so thoroughly hateful that you don't now & never could deserve a compliment? You really believe that
there isn't anything nice about you?
This isn't possible, yet I believe you believe it. I think you've been brainwashed.