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Originally Posted by prettypony
Just wondering, when someone has hurt your feeling or done something mean to you how do you expect them to resolve it? What things should they say? What would make you feel resolved.
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The person should own up to what she or he has done, admit that it was wrong and harmful, ask for forgiveness explicitly "I am sorry for harming you, please forgive me"
not "
If you got hurt, sorry" and then accept what the person says and does next. Some actions break relationships or stop them from ever starting. The person who has harmed someone else should know and accept that along with forgiveness might come the directive "now stay away from me."