Oh my, I'm so sorry Hydrophobic1212.
I imagine you probably feel really down right now, so I can't imagine anything I say would cheer you up. I'm not going to give you the cliche "There are more fish in the sea" crap. Plus, as an asexual, I am probably just awful with relationship advice.

However, it seems to me that, when you are ready to date again, you need a boyfriend who is totally understanding, and patient. If he is not willing to wait, and cares too much about the physical aspects of the relationship, he's probably not the one for you.

I think it's great, by the way, that you are addressing this with a therapist. Many people are afraid to take that step. I hope you find it helpful, and you find progress over time.