FORGIVENESS is never going to happen with me an my late father, he detatched himself from me an my problem,s an treated me like a retard ,this when he a depressive himself.Every question i asked about my mental state was met with silence, every time i was in trouble was met with silence , like he wished i would dissapear an not ask question,s . He started when really old, to accuse me of stealing from him, and all this while my wife washed his cloths ,cooked him meal.s ect ect. He went in a retierment home for his last 2 years an never once asked to see me , my sisters yes, but me not once even when dieing. There is no way i will ever forgive a father like him, who in truth abondoned me mentally an phsyically most of my life , because he couldent face up to his own illness , so he damaged me instead.