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Old Nov 06, 2011, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by sunrise View Post

Do you or your T emphasize learning skills in therapy? Are you saying you've worked on and learned enough skills in therapy? Or you want the work to go elsewhere (away from a skills emphasis)?

I hope you can find your way to a different space, WP. Have you and your T talked about your frustration? Sounds like you may be at a juncture in therapy--ready for a new direction?

we haven't done any skills at all. No behavior modification insight either.

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Originally Posted by Sannah View Post
THese don't sound like good things.
No. He's really easy going, and encouraging and I like that I can say almost anything with no big reaction. But I want a reaction. I want to be told what I need to stop doing, how I need to change. Feels like we are still having the same conversations we had a year ago
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Originally Posted by KazzaX View Post
Sounds like your T is like my old T. I found out after 2.5 years that she would have been perfectly happy to sit there and waste our time until the end of eternity as long as I kept forking over the cash. With no results. I guess there are some bad eggs out there in the therapy community. They are probably pretty rare though. I think you get to a certain stage (fed up) and then you just KNOW its time to get rid of him/her and get a new T. There is no mistaking it when you get to that stage. You can just feel it - there is no denying it.
The hate is so strong though, I don't want to bail if something important is coming up.
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