G'day iscarabaider

Aaarrrh the built in clock- where people have to prove themselves as warm and caring within 5 minutes or their out.

Then they have to be able to maintain this warm with our "on the spot" without warning valuations.

We push folks away not to feed the afterthoughts.
You/me/us do crave belonging and attachment and the thought of rejection holds us away.

I manage afterthoughts to allow people in-
Yes, I'm selective to who... but that's my balance.

Snap