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Originally Posted by 3rdTimesTheCharm
I understand that you're not trying to be offensive here, and I'm not trying to squelch you from having such an opinion. But, your post just comes across to me as really, really patronizing. And I'm not such a big fan of men patronizing women, or men trying to teach women "how it really is." I think men could learn a lot from women, about how to behave in therapy as well as outside of it. Maybe then you men would stop creating so many wars.
Anne
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I agree Anne. The patronizing that we encounter with some men is demoralizing and hurtful. This poster seems to think feelings are irrelevant and unimportant. My H thinks the same way. No wonder we have a hard time connecting on a deeper level. Feelings are what make us human. Otherwise, we might just as well be robots. If superficial is satisfying for some, fine, but let them leave the judgment of other's feelings off the table please.