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Originally Posted by purple_fins
 Im so sorry this has happened to you too.  I understand the work that goes into a post for some of us-- I do the checking and re-checking and then still I have to go and edit a lot of my posts.
I sure hope I didn't overlook a response of yours to me  
I try hard to respond to all those that take time to reply to me-- I understand that the person could have just not posted to me-- so I think they should be shown appreciation when possible.
have you kept track of those that didn't respond to you?... this may sound mean but I quit responding to those that don't acknowledge the time I've spent for them..... maybe you can respond to those that you know will value your time and input and skip those that don't respond to you....
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Originally Posted by lynn P.
I can see where you're coming from - this has happened to me where I wrote a good answer that was in the general opinion of the thread. All answers were acknowledged but mine. I don't even need a reply, but putting thanks on all but one does make me feel a bit left out. If my opinion was negative or out of the ordinary, I wouldn't expect anything. When I start threads I usually put my thanks on all replies unless the person's negative.
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purpefins and lynn P., I don't know if you remember, but you were two of the first posters to be so loving and welcoming to me in my first thread I posted about my abuse. Every time I see your names I remember how awesome you guys are. Thank you so much for giving me your feedback. It means A LOT!
purplefins, I like your idea to remember which posters do respond back. Thank you for your sweet hugs.
lynn P., you're so right. Just hitting the "Thanks" button is good for me. Sometimes, I know people don't have it in them to respond, but clicking the "Thanks" button is always a good response.
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Originally Posted by Buttercup.
I am sorry that this makes you feel upset and angry, I know when I reply to posts I write it all out then I delete it all as I think it sounds stupid, I am glad of some input when people reply to me...........I get what you're saying though as this has happened to me too. |
Buttercup, thank you so much! I'm sorry you delete your posts. I bet they aren't stupid, especially if they are coming from your heart and are helpful. I love your name.