my in laws are dysfunctional people and i need support!

i won't bore you with every detail but i will go back a few years ago.

sil son was going to a private college. sil couldn't afford this and due to bad credit can't get a loan in her name.

she asked my hubby for the loan to be in his name, my hubby said i would have to talk to needfixing first. when he told me he said i don't want to do this, i said she's your sister and family helps out family.

they went to the bank and instead of getting a loan for 6,000 she convinced him to get a visa for 13,000.

when sil tried to make a payment towards the college, they don't accept credit cards, so she convinced my hubby to give her a cash advance of 2,000. meanwhile, my sil is moving out of her house and into her apartment.

i said don't do this, your sister is taking advantage of you, the 2,000 isn't for college its for first month rent, and deposit towards the apartment. he said she's my sister and she'll pay us back.

he got the cash advance, and came home not looking so good.

i said what's the matter? he said my sister will go on line to get a loan for 10,000, she will fill out the form as if it were me, and i gave her my personal information!!!!!!

i said PLEASE tell your sister that needfixing said no! put the blame on me! he said no, his sister will keep him updated, and when the loan is approved she needs to call him to sign for it!

the loan was approved and his sister FORGED his name on a 10,000 loan!!!!!

i called the police, he told me i would have to go to the safety building pick up a fraud packet, fill it out, bring it in, and file charges. i told my hubby but he said i will not file charges she's my sister and i love her.

sil called, she said she will pay us back, my hubby said it had nothing to do with the money, you betrayed me! she said fine, i'll cancel the loan and i am sorry i ever asked for your help and hung up on him!

it was me that canceled the loan.

a few months later, my other sil who is my cousin had a party, and no one would talk to me or even look at my face! my hubby said needfixing i am sorry that my family was rude to you, but its your fault for calling the cops, lets go.

fast forward, last year i had a beautiful party, it took me 4 months to organize it, his side of the family didn't say hello to me, didn't look at my face, and when they left they didn't say thank you, or goodbye.

i had a melt down! shaking from head to toe, and crying! the next day suddenly my dad dies.

at the wake cousin sil to say she was rude to me was an understatement! her dad who is my uncle told her OFF!

the sil that forged my hubby name, her children never ever gave me there condolences. i was a second mother to those chiildren.

now sil son is getting married in a few days, i dont want to go! the anxiety is giving me heart palpiations.

thanks for reading.