We talk about it. She seems to think that I have unforgiveness that I need to work. She thinks I haven't forgiven myself for things in my past. I get upset with her about this because I have done everything I know to let it go. I don't know what she means, or what she is looking for.

The reality is that I did mess up and the life I live now is due to those mistakes. But, I have come to accept them and move on. I can't forget them. No one can totally forget things we have done in our past, but I don't dwell on them every day.