I think women overall are brought up to be judgemental of other women regarding their looks....
we females got our training in ways like watching things like,
Miss America Pageants..... there is only ONE winner.....
sets us up for competition(IMO)...

.. I don't recall talking about my appearance with T.-- but I think I should, as I believe this is a bit of an issue for me....

It sounds like a good idea for you to talk
to your T. about this Rainbow.....

best to you

fins