View Single Post
 
Old Jan 14, 2012, 05:40 PM
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes Open Eyes is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 23,285
((((raymondrusso))))

I am sorry to say that you talking like a victim here, victim mentality is when you truely feel your in a situation where there is no way to ask for help, otherwise you will create more trouble. I know that feeling well, all victims know that, but you have to work your way out of that and make sure you find ways out of this environment for you and your son. What your describing here is truely disfunctional, the girlfriend didn't protect her daughter that was sexually abused and is now an angry controlling presence, and I am sure she is going to abuse that baby out of jealousy, you better stop asking if and instead it is a matter of when and how much so far. You have to face that, someone has to protect that child. And ofcourse the bother of the teenage monster is truely suffering too, he CAN get better if someone steps in an helps HIM as well. Otherwise I don't think he will ever know how to have a good relationship with any woman down the road or have a functional family of his own one day.

You need to find a social worker or someone who can give you the right direction on getting the evidence you need to get that situation under control.

Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
kindachaotic