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know how *I* would feel -- I would want to get EVEN. And that's not good -- but that's the way I react to something like that.
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I think I need a bit of you in me!

(I admire that in people!) I've not ever been able to retaliate on others and oh man, has there been times when I'm sure others would have done so.
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And if he does things like this often, please think about this relationship -- are you sure it's a healthy one?
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thank you- this is something I've thought about.

like the battered child-- as an adult it's all they know so they are unfortunately drawn to same.
was an invisible child and somehow it's followed me..... blech....
I so hate feeling it...
invisible is just one step from non-existant.....
it scares me, as I teeter on the edge of invisibleness trying not to stumble into the darkness of non-existance.