The "get it right" very much resonates with me. I am pretty sure my son feels this, and I suspect that your kids have this sense to, that they are the focus.

I also think that your T has seen, probably mostly indirectly in your sessions, that you have their best interests at heart. I think this is something that probably permeates a lot of what you say and do, and something that is very observable to someone, like a T, who's paying attention. And that belief about what your T might think, about your kids having a rough deal, that sounds like your internal script from some historical time, not really something that someone's T might believe. If s/he sees YOU, then she's not going to think that.

Anne