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Originally Posted by velcro003
yeah i know there are bad T's out there...but ones who mock you for crying?! unless they are a sociopath and joined that profession purely to feel power over crying clients (which must be like 95% of their clientele)...that should NEVER happen. Why would you think your T would mock you, and how would that look like to you?
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For me it is that split between rational and irrational - I have learned to trust my T competely in my head - I can almost hear his soothing voice, how it would sound if I was crying and maybe for the first time he would reach out and even hold my hand or touch my shoulder - how caring, how acknowledging / validating - BUT how totally terrifying - I too can see him mocking, ignoring me, sighing, telling me to pull myself together - guess this is transference?