pluto. your posting shows your desire to help yourself re drugs. throw out the drugs. it can lead you right back into your addiction.

boyfriend-YOU take care of you. nothing you say to him will change his dope use. HE has to want it. keep the focus on YOU. have you tried NA or AA. great support from others that have learned a new life away from drug use. BTW akcohol is a drug, the granddaddy of them all.

boyfriend-his wanting for you all to use together. he wants to lure you into being his web of drug use. doesn't want to lose his drug use partner. i know he may not be aware of this but that's the deal.

a good rule of thumb that will help you-stay away from "people, places and things" that you associate with drug use. it's too tempting to fall back into your old pattern otherwise.
i wish you well and hope you'll keep posting.