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Old Feb 29, 2012, 06:06 PM
Sadness2011 Sadness2011 is offline
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Hi Dan,
Thanks for the input. As for your question, I thought of him off and on throughout the 19 years of my marriage, wondering how he was, if he settled down, had kids etc. But I wondered that kind of stuff about all of my old friends and exes. It was only when we started seeing each other again that those feelings came back. I'm just really hurt because I was genuinely enjoying getting reaquainted as adults all these years later, and I thought he was too. But like the other posters said, there's a reason that he broke off his engagement after a 3 year relationship, and broke up with the girlfriends he had after her. He told me it was because they "thought" they were in love, but it "didn't feel right" and that's why he broke off the engagement. He then proceeded to tell me that he's never been in love but he'd "give it all up if he could". I think he's just really immature and a commitment phobe, but I just can't get my head around his cutting me off at the knees without even giving me a chance to have my say. I didn't want to marry him, I just wanted to continue getting to know each other and see where it might go.