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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
I guess the question becomes would I benefit from a proper termination session, as this is where I see this headed. Is it beneficial? Experiences?
Then there is the part of me who wants T to see that xT was crazy! What better way then to see what she wrote and hear her side, compare to the test. It wasn't all me, she's labeling me as difficult and that is BS! ... Residual anger , followed my nervous laughter.  |
Your old t was not good for you. I just am not confident continuing to include her in any part of your new therapy will get you what you want. You know you are not difficult, you and the new t will be forming your own working situation, and old t will never admit she was wrong. I think new t can confirm you are not difficult without the old t at all.
Good luck with it. It is not fun to feel unjustly labelled. But you cannot control how the old t viewed you, and continuing to defend yourself against her when she is now gone may not be your most productive use of time and money as compared to forging on with this or some other new t. Just my thought and I realize it is not for me to decide what is best for you.