Oooooo Lola, you've hit the jackpot in saying everything she could have/probably felt when working with you or any other client who was able to dig down and be real . . .And you recognized it was about HER and not about you. The woman wasn't able to separate her own issues from yours. .. sad but all to true when it comes to therapy. I'm glad you've moved on! I can only hope that this new therapist is prepared for the honest, open person who is willing to open herself up to another human being! He needs to meet you in the same real and open space that you are willing to open between you.