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Originally Posted by Anneinside
You can't help him if he doesn't want it. He probably does need therapy, for his losses as much as anything else. Have you had counseling? You had a big loss. I know, I also lost a daughter, my only child, in a car accident.
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I am so sorry Anneinside, I try and attend when work permits and when it feels right once a month at a local compassionate friends... my little girl was 11, she is now 13....sometimes I don't go because I just don't want to be that sad..... I have tried numerous counselors,still looking for a "good fit" I am sure you get that..... I am very active on a place similar to this for grieving parents, I read as much as I can and cry when I need to......I send you much love and bear hugs....we both need them...
As for my husband I know that this requires his participation I do wish and would be there for his love and support, but he is also on the verge of financial ruin, his and mine....I would like to know how to approach and the do's and don'ts I am new at this bipolar stuff reading everything I can get my hands on ...still grieving, taking care mentally and physically of my son who survived the accident, battling an ex, holding down a full time job.....I am about maxed myself...unfortunately.....
I keep going somehow, I tell all the people I know I must have been someone awful in my past life to deserve this.....