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Old Apr 12, 2012, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by xraydiva09 View Post
Hey there John! Sorry to hear about all these decision making problems you are having....be very very careful with the car dealership job. I know you say you need a job badly, but just be careful. Years ago, I used to hang out with alot of people who sold cars, and not trying to sterotype, but alot of them seem to live the fast lifestyle, and that doesnt seem a good place for you to be. Best of luck to you though...have you considered going back to school?
I'd say, from my experience, you are dead on with the lifestyle of many people who work in car dealerships (I am sure there are a lot of normal people who work at car dealerships, too). I probably would go back to school, but being in the situation that I am in won't let that happen.

For the last couple days I have been thinking about what sets stress off in me when working and I came to the conclusion that it is me. I say that because I would always exceed the expectations of the companies I worked for, but my internal dialogue would start telling me I can't keep it up, I have to do better now for when I do fail and want to keep my job, or someone could be selling more than me and I would go crazy over it. These types of thoughts happen constantly, some much more negative, and this is the reason I get completely stressed out and quit jobs and also why I never finished college. Sorry for the rambling, just want to put everything out there.