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The whole kid in bed thing is a valid excuse...If it weren't for that, then I would say "yes" she was wrong. If she was lying about her kid being in bed, shame on her and she would be wrong. I have been in this type of dilemma before. My friend has always had unreliable cars. And, they always break down. I always come through for her if she needs a ride. But when it comes to my daughter, if she is in bed and I can't make it, she's cool with it because she understands. Or at least, it's never been brought up as an issue. She knows what it's like having kids and she knows that I wouldn't flake on her because I always got her back...Or, like someone else said, maybe she doesn't value the friendship like you do...
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