Hi, Hollie, I'm sorry you are feeling stuck. What do you want? It sounds like neither you nor your boyfriend are very committed to one another since you describe your relationship as "dating". I think when one is dating one is not in a committed relationship. That you slept with your boyfriend, and your sister and he slept together during that time also, it does sound like your boyfriend is not too serious about the situation.
I would decide what I wanted and work on that. If you want to keep this relationship, you ask your boyfriend to start counseling and marry; come up with a common plan as to work, school, child care and future life together. If you are not keen to get married or build a stable family life with this particular man then you need to make a plan of your own and discuss it with in insofar as he'll have to contribute to child care and some monetary support. But it is time to make some decisions of your own, whether to work together with this man as a team or pull your own wagon for a bit.
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