Granite- I can't remember. Did she explain why she set those boundaries for you or were they just arbitrary boundaries she set after a certain aount of time?

Initially my T just arbitrarily set them and then after I struggle with feelings of rejection and her not liking me anymore, she finally explained why she had to set the goals. That helped, but it would've been so much more prodcutive had she told me in the beginning and we could've agreed o n it TOGETHER. I like my T and I believe her 100%, but I still feel hurt and not sure how to handle it. This feeling keeps popping up in therapy. I need to know how to let it go. I think in my head I ahve, but then it comes rushing back when something else happens. UGH!