YW Shadow hun, like I said at first I walked away because my immediate ANGRY response could have very well sparked a huge issue...I thought about it and still felt it was an inappropriate response in here. I had a friend on a chat group once who mentioned that he wanted to kill himself and I automatically tried to talk privately...a group of people I thot where friends started taunting him and ridiculing him..his sister informed me about a week later he had ended his life (I had been in contact with him offline prior). I honestly think all he wanted was someone to understand and they let him down. I left the group after I left a very nasty post on the site. Sewerrats response brought all that back up so I needed to calm down before I responded.
I too was afraid to respond at first as I didn't want an argument. I do truly believe that Everyone has a right to their opinion no matter what that opinion is, however To gain respect for ones opinions/ideas it is key to show respect for others, period. That's whey the post is so long I didn't want Sewerrat to feel attacked. I do understand that maybe there are reasons there that I do not understand, but the wording was harsh and unforgiving and this is not the right place for that.

Hugz and thanks for the confirmation that I am OK in feeling what I did and in responding in kind....I appreciate that.
Huggies