LOL, that's just it! I KN0W who and what I am, and nobody has ever succeeded in trying to make me into anyone or anything else, but when asked, especially in a therapeutic or philosophical context, I'm unable to articulate WHO exactly it is that I know me to be... I know without knowing any of the words... Idk, maybe I'm not confused at all. Maybe the question is straightforward, and the answer IS Ophelia afterall!