Hi, I am kinda new here. I really hate to unload on ya"ll, but I can't talk to anyone here. I recently found out that my husband of 11 years was molesting my daugher for 7-8 of those. I am all about protecting my kids. However, I am not dealing with the fact that I have also been decieved and lost my partner in life as well. I am so overwhelmed. This is devastating for so many people on so many levels. It is really hard to be the one that has to be strong for everyone.