hi Hillbunnyb...

I know what you're talking about... and I have no problem accepting many things about others that may irritate or annoy me... it's just part of who they are...

I show that by the way I have been able to have a great relationship with him for the first 7 years of our marriage... he still acted out often, and a lot of stressful situations that resulted from that were thrown our way.... but we got through it all... kinda like a team...

the question I'm asking about in my post, is when his acting out got so severe it now involves kicking me out of the house... only to beg me to come back shortly after....

wanting him to stop doing that, isn't asking too much, in my opinion.

Respectfully ~ phoenix