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Old Jun 04, 2012, 01:41 AM
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Originally Posted by shezbut View Post
(((Billi)))

That doesn't sound quite right to me. Are you living in subsidized housing? Or do you have a lease that you can refer to?

Landlords do have the right to kick renters out, but it usually takes a lot of hoops that they have to jump through to get it done & that takes time. If you're in subsidized housing, the landlord has to prove that they've given you warnings prior to this.

I know that you're in Ca, and I'm in Mn, but I'm pretty sure that these laws are similar. If you're renting from a private party, you still have rights! Don't let them freak you out ~ but do know that the landlord does have the right to say that John can't be living with you.

I'll see if I can find a reference for you to refer to.

http://www.dca.ca.gov/publications/l...inations.shtml

There are other publications on this site to refer to. Best wishes Billi!!
He is not living with us. He is in the hospital and we are bringing all his belongings to him there. Bruce did keep them in our garage, but I told him to return them to him, at the hospital. He was just keeping it for him, he is not living here.

The condition was, though, that if John does come back and knock on our door, or even show up in or near the property, we will be given a 3 day notice. We are renting from a private party and she cannot accuse us of having him live here because that is not true and she does not believe us. I told Bruce "please return his stuff, do not allow him to just come back here for it; that will be it! We will lose our place if he even comes back to the property!"

I pray he will not show up unannounced and we'll be without a home.

I am so scared and cannot believe this is happening.

I understand the landlord's concern, but we are being held accountable and she is not listening to our side and I am scared she might even have us kicked out because of me having a mental illness!

Billi
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